It’s not only okay to be a soft person, but I would also argue that it is something to be proud of. Embrace the parts of you that are not yet hardened by the world, own the side of you that is emotional and sensitive. Think of all the wonderful things we could do if there were more people focused on being kind and empathetic in the world.
In our society, we like to measure intelligence primarily through standardised testing and the number of degrees that a person holds, or the job title that they have. But is this truly what it means to be intelligent, or is there more to it than that?